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Short, sharp observations on how technically strong teams become aligned, accountable, and high-performing.
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In The Room #27 – When "I'm playing to my strengths" is actually avoidance.
I'm just playing to my strengths" can sound like insight. Sometimes it's a cover story.
In The Room #26 – The year hadn’t changed. The story had.
A sales team was convinced the market had changed. Then we looked at the numbers.
In The Room #25 – When everyone agrees but nobody means the same thing.
A leadership team agreed that communication was non-negotiable. Then six people gave six different definitions of it.
IN THE ROOM #24 – The promotion paradox.
The person who was exceptional at the work starts struggling as a leader. Usually, the organisation has misunderstood what changed.
IN THE ROOM #23 – Your meetings are organisational X-rays
Before you listen to what people are saying in a leadership meeting, watch what the room is already showing you.
IN THE ROOM #22 – The behaviour you're not getting isn't a skill gap.
Sometimes people know exactly what they're supposed to do. The problem is that the system rewards them for doing something else.
IN THE ROOM #21 – Who actually owns this decision? (part 3 of 3)
The meeting ends, everyone nods, and somehow everyone leaves with a different idea of what happens next.
IN THE ROOM #20 – They're not avoiding it. They just don't have a process (part 2 of 3)
Many managers aren't avoiding the difficult conversation because they don't care. They simply don't know how to have it well.
IN THE ROOM #19– The same conversation, again (Part 1of 3)
If the same issue keeps returning to the agenda, the conversation probably isn't the real problem.
IN THE ROOM #18 – Why some people are ready and others aren't.
Two people can sit in the same workshop with completely different levels of engagement. It may have less to do with motivation than you think.
IN THE ROOM #17 – Run around your backhand.
We spend enormous energy trying to fix weaknesses when sometimes the smarter move is to reposition around what we're already good at.
IN THE ROOM #16 – Everyone nodded. Nobody agreed.
The decision was made and every head nodded. Then the real conversation started outside the room.
IN THE ROOM #15 – Busy isn't the same as energised.
A team can be hitting deadlines, clearing inboxes and getting things done while quietly running on empty.
IN THE ROOM #14 – Too busy for team development.
“We're too busy right now” sounds like a reason to postpone team development. Sometimes it's the strongest reason not to.
IN THE ROOM #13 – Silence is data.
When nobody speaks up in a meeting, don't assume everything is fine. Something is still happening in the room.
IN THE ROOM #12 – Standards create safety.
When people can't see the standard, they don't feel free. They hesitate, second-guess and protect themselves.
IN THE ROOM #11 – What you enjoy isn't always what the team needs.
What someone enjoys doing and what the team actually needs from them aren't always the same thing.